When a breakup sounds different in two languages
One of the most fascinating things about ¿Cómo Pasó? by Ela Taubert and Joe Jonas is that it isn’t simply a duet—it’s a conversation happening across two languages.
Released in 2025, the song pairs Colombian pop star Ela Taubert with Joe Jonas, creating a bilingual heartbreak ballad where both artists tell the same story from different emotional angles. Ela sings primarily in Spanish while Joe responds in English, making the song feel like two people trying to understand the same breakup in their own language.
For language learners, this makes ¿Cómo Pasó? especially interesting because it naturally switches between Spanish and English without losing the emotional thread.
About the song
After winning Best New Artist at the Latin Grammys, Ela Taubert quickly became one of Latin pop’s most promising young voices. Known for deeply personal songwriting, she often explores themes of love, loss, nostalgia, and self-discovery.
¿Cómo Pasó? combines her emotional storytelling with Joe Jonas’s reflective pop style. The result is a song about a relationship that felt perfect while it lasted—but somehow still ended.
The central question repeated throughout the song is simple:
“If everything was so good, why didn’t it last?”
It’s a question many people ask after a breakup—and one that rarely has a satisfying answer.
Listen to the Song
¿Cómo Pasó? – Ela Taubert & Joe Jonas
¿Cómo Pasó? – Ela Taubert & Joe Jonas Lyric Translation
No sé cómo pasó
I don’t know how it happened
Que en dos meses, de la nada, nos quisimos tanto
That in two months, out of nowhere, we loved each other so much
Que dijimos y juramos nunca hacernos daño
That we said and promised we’d never hurt each other
Creo que haberte conocido es lo mejor que me ha pasado
I think meeting you is the best thing that’s ever happened to me
(Tan bueno)
(So good)
Maybe I was too naive and only saw what I wanted to
Quizás fui demasiado ingenua y solo vi lo que quería ver
Ignoring all the warning signs
Ignorando todas las señales de advertencia
Even when I knew the truth
Incluso cuando conocía la verdad
Did you know that you were leavin’
¿Sabías que te ibas a marchar?
Was it something pre-determined?
¿Era algo que ya estaba destinado?
Pero si era tan bueno, ¿por qué no duró?
But if it was so good, why didn’t it last?
Y si era tan perfecto, ¿por qué se acabó?
And if it was so perfect, why did it end?
Y solo pasó que un día te fuiste
And it simply happened that one day you left
Nunca volviste
You never came back
¿En dónde quedé yo?
Where did that leave me?
It looked so easy
Parecía tan fácil
For you to walk away, to turn the page on us completely
Para ti alejarte y pasar página por completo
And I can’t wrap my head around
Y no logro comprender
The fact that we went from it all
El hecho de que lo éramos todo
Now we’re back, back to people that we don’t know
Y ahora volvimos a ser desconocidos
¿Por qué es más fácil
Why is it easier
Siempre terminar que comenzar?
To always end things than begin them?
Si es tan difícil
If it’s so difficult
Aceptar que nada va a quedar
To accept that nothing will remain
Para ti, para mí
For you, for me
Fuimos casi, casi todo
We were almost, almost everything
Pero no
But not quite
Where does the love go
¿A dónde va el amor?
The stories that we made
Las historias que construimos
Does it all
¿Todo
Turn to nothing, does it all just go to waste?
Se convierte en nada? ¿Se desperdicia todo?
Cause that almost makes it worse
Porque eso casi lo hace peor
There’s no reason, only hurt
No hay explicación, solo dolor
Broken pieces we’re left to divide
Pedazos rotos que nos quedan por repartir
¿Por qué es más fácil
Why is it easier
Siempre terminar que comenzar?
To always end things than begin them?
¿Por qué es tan fácil
Why is it so easy
No darse una oportunidad?
Not to give ourselves a chance?
De intentar, de soñar
To try, to dream
De lograr una vida juntos
To build a life together
It looked so easy
Parecía tan fácil
For you to walk away, to turn the page on us completely
Para ti alejarte y pasar página por completo
And I can’t wrap my head around
Y no logro comprender
The fact that we went from it all
El hecho de que lo éramos todo
Now we’re back, back to people that we don’t know
Y ahora volvimos a ser desconocidos
Yo dándolo todo y tú
I was giving everything and you
Nada
Nothing
Yo intentando todo y tú
I was trying everything and you
Nada
Nothing
Me moría de ganas
I was dying to make it work
Que esto funcionara
For this to work
Di más de lo que tuve y tú
I gave more than I had and you
Nada
Nothing
¿Por qué es más fácil
Why is it easier
Siempre terminar que comenzar?
To always end things than begin them?
¿Por qué es tan fácil
Why is it so easy
No darse una oportunidad?
Not to give ourselves a chance?
De intentar, de soñar
To try, to dream
De lograr una vida juntos
To build a life together
¿Por qué es más fácil
Why is it easier
Siempre terminar que comenzar?
To always end things than begin them?
Si es tan difícil
If it’s so difficult
Aceptar que nada va a quedar
To accept that nothing will remain
Para ti, para mí
For you, for me
Fuimos casi, casi todo
We were almost, almost everything
Pero no
But not quite
Why this song resonates with so many listeners
Unlike many breakup songs that focus on anger or blame, ¿Cómo Pasó? is built around confusion.
Nobody cheated.
Nobody betrayed anyone.
The relationship simply ended.
That’s what makes lines like:
“Pero si era tan bueno, ¿por qué no duró?”
so heartbreaking.
Sometimes the hardest relationships to get over are the ones that seemed perfect while they lasted.
Learn Spanish Vocabulary from ¿Cómo Pasó?
| Spanish Word/Phrase | Meaning | Example |
| de la nada | out of nowhere | Apareció de la nada |
| jurar | to swear, promise | Juramos estar juntos |
| durar | to last | La relación duró dos años |
| quedarse | to remain, be left | ¿Qué quedó de nosotros? |
| comenzar | to begin | Vamos a comenzar hoy |
| oportunidad | opportunity, chance | Dame una oportunidad |
| lograr | to achieve | Logramos terminar el proyecto |
| darse cuenta | to realize | Me di cuenta tarde |
| funcionar | to work out | Quiero que esto funcione |
| morirse de ganas | to be dying to do something | Me moría de ganas de verte |
Learn Spanish Grammar Through This Song
| Grammar Point | Example | Explanation |
| Present Perfect | me ha pasado | “has happened to me” |
| Imperfect Past | nos quisimos tanto | describes an ongoing emotional situation in the past |
| Reflexive Construction | darse una oportunidad | to give oneself a chance |
| Conditional Meaning | si era tan bueno | “if it was so good” |
| Infinitive Chains | intentar, soñar, lograr | multiple infinitives linked together |
| Expression with Quedar | ¿En dónde quedé yo? | “Where did that leave me?” |
Quick Spanish Quiz
1. What does
de la nada
mean?
A) By accident
B) Suddenly / out of nowhere
C) At night
D) Forever
2. What does
durar
mean?
A) To last
B) To remember
C) To return
D) To forgive
3. What does
morirse de ganas
mean?
A) To feel tired
B) To regret something
C) To be dying to do something
D) To be afraid
4. What does
lograr
mean?
A) To lose
B) To achieve
C) To explain
D) To forget
5. Complete the lyric:
Fuimos casi, casi ____
A) felices
B) siempre
C) juntos
D) todo
Answers
- B
- A
- C
- B
- D
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